Some of those parts are so hidden and small that it is like trying to find a little tiny feather on the beach. You have to pay close attention to catch it. It can be especially hard to catch when there is not a safe place to share those parts of ourselves. Most people,(even at church) when they ask "How are you today?" are not really asking how you are. Truthfully they are just making small talk to fill the awkward space because they do not really know what else to say. It really is a sad thing too because we all have these broken places inside of us that need to be healed. I have found much comfort in at least being able to share them even when true healing was not available at that time. Somehow there was a small measure of healing that came in knowing that I wasn't alone and being encouraged by others for another day.